Say hello to the
Parenting
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in the moment toolkit
scripts and strategies for co-regulating during everyday challenges.
What to say (and how to say it) when emotions run high.
are you ready to know what to say during a challenging moment?
When feelings are big, fewer words work best.The In the Moment Toolkit gives you short, ready- to-use scripts for meltdowns, transitions, refusal,sibling conflict, and more. Pair with visuals and gestures to reduce overwhelm and increase cooperation.
You'll get:
Scenario scripts (before / during / after)
First–Then phrasing examples (3–5 words)
Repair scripts for reconnecting
Reflection & next-step prompts
WHY IT WORKS:
When emotions run high, children borrow our calm.
This toolkit helps you respond instead of react, using simple scripts and connection-based language that regulate both you and your child.
By shifting your words and tone, you create safety, model emotional regulation, and turn hard moments into opportunities for connection.
Perfect for: parents/caregivers who want confident, calm language they can use right away.
Repeat after me
Calm is possible.
Understanding is powerful. You’ve got this. And these toolkits will show you how.
parenting doesn’t come with a manual. but it can come with a plan.
When emotions run high, it’s easy to feel lost for words.
This toolkit gives you simple, compassionate scripts for real-life moments — so you can stay calm, connect with your child, and guide them through tough emotions with confidence.
This toolkit isn't just a printable — it's the calm you’ve been trying to create, made simple and actionable.
$29
Small investment. Big impact. Instant download.
what parents are saying
amira g.
Those scripts were a lifesaver. In the heat of the moment, I don’t have to think — I just glance at what to say and it keeps me calm.
caroline p.
Having these scripts at my fingertips has been a game changer. I used one during a tough bedtime and watched my child’s body soften instead of escalate.
vanessa L.
This toolkit gave me confidence to stay calm when my child couldn’t. The co-regulation phrases have become part of our daily life — it’s made our home feel safer for both of us.